We all would like
to think we have some control over the things that happen in our lives, and can
have some control and influence of the lives we bring into this world. When your child is born you have control over
how that child will be raised, inserting discipline, and having some influence
over what kind of person that child will become. As each year passes in your child’s
development parents tend to give them more control over their own life to
prepare them for the responsibilities of the real world. It is kind of like being a surgeon. People temporarily place control of their
life and well being in the hands of surgeon to help correct something and then
once the surgery is over control of your body is given back to you. There are, however, two definitive things we
have absolutely no control over; when we are born, and when and how we will
leave this world.
When your child is
diagnosed with autism you have involuntary given control of your child’s life
over to a disability for which there is no cure. I wish there was an incision
or zipper on my son’s head so I could open it up, re-wire his brain, and cure
him of the autism that has taken over control of his body. Parents, by nature, will protect their
children from harm or do whatever they can to prevent any harm from being committed. When a child does sustain harm parents are
the first to try and find immediate relief to reduce the injury and stop any
further suffering. As a parent of a
child with autism the damage was complete and there was nothing we could have
done to prevent it. At this point what
we can control about our son’s diagnosis is getting him the therapy he needs
with the hope that it will have a positive impact on his development with the
best chance of a normal life. We still
do not have any control over the outcome of the therapy he receives and neither
do the therapist that provide the services, but we need to at least give our
son a chance and an opportunity to get better.
Stay Tuned for "Now What?" part 2
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